ENCOURAGEMENT FOR THE DAY

Sincere Rejoicing

Romans 12:15a
Rejoice with those who rejoice...

 

 

Often times we find it easier to weep with those who are weeping, than it is to rejoice with those who rejoice. Don't think so? Look to your own family. How many times have you heard (or said), "That's not fair, he or she gets so and so and I don't." Usually a temper tantrum or pout follows. And families are supposed to love, and want what's best, for each other.
Maybe you've felt that way when passed by for a promotion at work. Perhaps someone else was voted in as president of the home owner's association, or chosen for the role in ministry you preferred. Be honest, how do you feel? A lot of it has to do with our competitive nature. I coached an adult co-ed softball team for many years. On occasion I was surprised at the lack of maturity and sportsmanship demonstrated by one teammate toward another -- especially when competing for positions. Many times people quit the team because they couldn't play the position they wanted. Sounds like a child doesn't it? "If I don't get my way, then I'm not going to play with you."
In our passage today, Paul tells us to rejoice with those who rejoice. It implies we need to get over our own childish, egotistical, and self-centered nature in order to do so. I know those are pretty harsh words, but think for a moment about when you have trouble celebrating a victory with another person. Isn't there a little jealousy involved? A twinge of envy? Perhaps a dose of insecurity mixed in? Consider the softball team as an illustration: Someone is chosen to play first base (the position you want), so what are you going to do, quit the team and lose the joy of playing softball altogether? Of course not. Playing sports, a job, or ministry work are more than selfish demands to play a particular position or serve in a special function. All are about fellowship, teamwork, healthy competitiveness, fun, and of course, celebration from time to time. If you have difficulty not only congratulating, but sincerely rejoicing with another person, teammate, or co-worker relating to one of their accomplishments -- then you probably need some work on this issue.

 

 

How would you rate yourself on Paul's instructions to rejoice with those who rejoice? On a scale of one to five (with five perfect) where do you fit in? What is the driver of your feelings? Too competitive? Jealous? Envious? What does the Bible say? What steps will you take next?

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